How can you make a shy sugar baby falling in love with you? (2)
In the previous article, we've learned why so many young girls are shy and how to get them to open up to you. So, we will continue to discuss how to ask a shy girl out.
Depending on the girl, you may find that she is not as shy as you think. In this case, you might be surprised when she asks you out on her own or begins to imply that she wants to spend more time with you.
If that doesn't happen to the girl you're interested in, or if you become intolerant and don't know if she wants to date you, you need to consider how best to ask her out.
Tips on Asking her Out
Just like when you ask her out, it's a good idea to go to a place that doesn't have many people or people she knows. At least at first, showing any kind of love in public might make her a little shy and embarrassed.
The ideal first date should be a place where you can be alone without the stress of anyone around you making her feel more nervous. It's a good idea to take a walk, go to a state park or have a quiet dinner.
Also, make sure that the first time you hold hands or kiss (again, depending on how shy she is right now) is when you're together.
Don't move too fast
Moving too fast can make her shy around you again and put you both back in the relationship you're building. If you're not sure if she's ready to hold hands or go to the movies, it's best to take your time or ask if she's comfortable. (this is usually helpful in a relationship in junior or high school because everyone feels like dating.)
Again, it depends on how shy the girl is and why. She may open up to you quickly or she may be shy with you for a long time. Keep in mind that this relationship takes a long time to develop. Communication is key.
If you move too fast, she may end up not knowing how to handle the situation. This may cause her to avoid you, not answer your phone calls, or lie about stupid things to keep you away. These are signs that you need to hurry or that she doesn't like you.
Final Thoughts and Advice
Dating a shy girl is not that different from dating an ordinary girl, except you have to spend more time making sure she's comfortable and you don't go too fast.
The first few months or weeks (depending on the girl) will be slow until she starts opening up to you. After she does this, you will soon find out more about her and maybe you will find out why she was so shy at first.
Be sure to take the pressure off her shyness and show her your support and love. This is the key to dating and maintaining a relationship with a shy girl. Be honest with her and she will be honest with you.
From personal experience, I've found that some people make you feel more comfortable than others. If holding someone's hand or approaching them makes you uncomfortable or nervous, you might want to consider whether this person is right for you. I have a boyfriend with whom I always feel uncomfortable (thankfully, it's all over) and a boyfriend with whom I feel instantly comfortable.
If you're unhappy or uncomfortable in a relationship, there's no need to force it. It may seem like a bad idea to leave such a note, but there is plenty of fish in the sea.
Of course, you can also find a better arrangement on the sugar baby site. It doesn't have to be a case of spending too much time and energy with a shy sugar baby.